On Saturday night I was elbow-deep in boeuf bourguignon, preparing for a dinner party, when I got an e-mail from Niki Chanel of Los Angeles Romance Authors, a chapter of Romance Writers of America, saying that their speaker for the next day’s meeting wouldn’t be able to deliver the scheduled chat and asking if I would fill in.
Yikes. What could I talk about with so little time to prepare? My dinner guests wouldn’t be leaving until close to midnight and Niki had kindly offered to pick me up at 8:10 am and drive me there. I would have to totally wing it.
I thought about saying I couldn’t possibly do it, but I wanted to help Niki. I took another swig of wine and reasoned with myself that moments like this are sent for a reason. These unplanned, serendipitous bolts from the blue are a “call to adventure” if you choose to view them that way. So a few minutes later I found myself e-mailing Niki to accept her invitation.
It was the best thing I could have done.
Bleary-eyed and clutching my latte, I folded myself into Niki’s sporty black sedan and made a few notes on an index card while she zipped down the freeway. We arrived early while the chairs, mike, and podium were still being set up, so I had time to gather my thoughts and say hi to a few members of LARA before we began. A sign on an easel told me I was scheduled to talk about “Fans, Followers, and Friends: Maximize Promotion Through Social Media.” The meeting was called to order, some announcements were made, and then it was time for “the main event” as someone referred to what I seconds later realized was… me. Gulp. An hour flew by, the questions came thick and fast, the LARA members were warm, curious, informed and focused, and before I knew it, time was up! Mission accomplished. And I had a bunch of fun.
What if I hadn’t gone for it? What if I’d said “Oh no, I couldn’t possibly!” and stayed at home? I would have missed out on a chance to make new friends and find out what I’m made of. It all worked out fine, and I was immensely flattered to be invited back. Thank you, Niki, for offering me such a wonderful opportunity to stretch myself, for treating me to a delicious lunch, and for playing chauffeur and cheerleader with such easy grace.
Thank you also, LARA members, for welcoming me into your midst with such open minds and hearts!
I promised you all I’d blog each day this week on a different social media platform. Look out for the first one tomorrow, but until then, check out ex-agent Nathan Bransford’s excellent advice on How to Build a Following Online and The 10 Commandments of Social Networking for Writers by the Waxman Literary Agency. You may also enjoy Penguin Authors’ Guide to Online Marketing and The Book Marketing Network.
Wow, Lia. That's wonderful. You are very courageous.
Nice that the subject ended up being something you are so familiar with. I wish I could have been there to hear you.
Congratulations, you are on your way to an adventurous new life as a public speaker! 🙂
Thank you, Nancy! I think it's easier to do these things the first time if you don't really know anyone there. I've only met my teacher Suzanne Lazear online, but knowing she was in the audience nearly unraveled me!
Thank you Lia, for your last minute heroism, your friendly smile, your quick wit, and your brain – the size of Montreal! I received many compliments for you, and kudos to me (imagine) for talking you into speaking to the group. I call that a win-win-win! Now, if we can just get them all set up with a blog each and the inspiration to comment!
Getting bloggers to realize that the real benefit of blogging can only be harvested by commenting on other people's blogs seems to be a really difficult message to get across!
The comments here are a great example. Even those who are kind enough to comment don't leave their blog or website url (which turns their name from black to red, signifying a live link that will take curious people to their own domain.
Anyway, Niki, all I can say is you're very persuasive. Show me the person who can say no to you. I don't believe there's one. 🙂